Okay see this is my point of view. I'm for them.
is why. Someone posted a bulliton saying they want to be a teenage mom. Someone,I wont say whom, posted THIS as an answer: “Well if you will support the baby without the help of your parents, then why not. I think you should be moved out and in your own home though, so your family doesn't have to deal with another crying baby.
I hope you know that your life as a teenager will be over.
won't be able to go out drinking on your 21st birthday because you'll be at home with your 3 year old.
won't be able to go out with boys or have one night stands now, your baby will be your life.” I AM SORRY BUT I WOULD MUCH rather my daughter want to do something RESPONSIBLE like CHOOSE to be a mother and have a family THAN GO OUT PARTYING, DRINKING, AND HAVING ONE NIGHT STANDS. SO WHY is it you parents think its so bad?! Do you WANT your teens to go out and be sluts? YOU KNOW WHAT? MOST of those partying one-night-stand girls GET PREGNANT ANYWAY the difference is either they kill the baby through abortion, or ruin the kids life by not wanting it.
one of the want-to-be teen moms, was already turning 18, living o her own and all, and they had a problem with them because they wanted to go to a sperm bank and be a SINGLE mom, and while I'm all for families, the reply i posted above was directed to her. here's a tip MOST ACCIDENTAL One-night-stand PREGNANCIES, THEY DONT KNOW WHO THE FATHER IS ANYWAY, at least that way it is planned. So what is the big deal if a15 or 16 yr old already has a job, and is already moved out living with their bf, what makes them any less ready to have a baby than a 30 yr old? I know most of my friends are wayy more mature than my mom, my mom is a 6th grade dropout.
she waited till she was 30 to have me, did that make her any more fit to be a mom? NO she ran out and abandoned me! After 15, AGE DOESNT CHANGE ANYTHING except SOME adults I know THINK they know everything funny, isn't that what the adults say the teens do? MUST MEAN YOUR IMMATURE.
question is How do you justify your beliefs one way or the other? this is how I justify mine.
line, I think the individual knows if they are ready or not. I am 18, am a Mother. so YES i know the reality o it, NO i am not overestimating, so DO NOT tell me to grow up. IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE IF YOU ARE 17 OR 32! Firstly, i am not pregnant, I ALREADY have my baby, and I AM MARRIED to the same mane I've been with since I was 11. So I see no need to justify myself.
let me point out most 16 yr olds I know HAVE A JOB. I am not talking about the girls who are scared to tell their parents they're pregnant. I mean the ones already living with their bf, and not their parents.
in regards to the girls who ARE scared to tell their parents. My one friend was 19 19! ALREADY MOVE OUT ON HER OWN AND MARRIED.
was still scared to tell her mother, and for good reason too, when she told her mother, her mother punched her in the ovaries and killed the baby.
EVER THINK THESE GIRLS AREN'T IMMATURE, ITS THE PARENTS THAT ARE?!