An older (much older) guy is hitting on me, what do I do?
Honestly, I've flirted back. He always comes into McDonald's where I work. He always makes a point to talk to me, and last time he visited, he gave me his e-mail address. I sent him an e-mail. He sent one back asking me to come to his place. Whoah! Way to go fast, sir! Here's the thing: I'm 18, he's in his 50's. I've had many conversations with him, and he's an excellent conversationalist. However, I am not physically attracted to him. In fact, he is kind of gross physically. He smokes and work outside, so he's constantly dirty when he comes to McDonald's. The age is a problem, too.
me, there is no chance of a relationship. If I were to visit him, it would be a sexual thing. Still, I think he may just want sex.
first time I saw him, he came to McDonald's with a college age guy. I'm pretty sure he was his current toy. Honestly, I don't want to be his boy toy or booty call. A one time thing will be enough for me.
should I do? Should I straight up ask his intentions? Should I kind of use him for sexual gratification? I'm not a slut- really. I've only engaged in sexual activities with one person before, and we were in a relationship.
give me some serious advice.
attraction is intellectual is what I'm trying to say- not physical.
August 24th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Well, stop flirting back, for starters.
return flirting initially gave him the green light. So, he will keep trying. If he pressees in meeting, do NOT go over his place.
somewhere public at first and be pretty direct that friendship is all you're after.
August 24th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
I suspect you already know the answer. my serious advice is stop d!ck teasing this guy. no one deserves to be used, not even the old.