This entry was posted on Saturday, August 23rd, 2008 at 6:23 pm and is filed under Pre-Marital Sex.
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There are so many benefits to saving yourself for marriage.
people do not marry the person they lose their virginity to anyway.I'll be proud to let my husband know that I've been saving myself for him. Besides, there is a transferrence (besides just physical) that occurs with 2 people's bodies merge..it is a strong emotional and spiritual connection that can get dangerous if you are not doing it within the confines of a marriage which is a blessed union. If you think you have to test drive before commiting for marriage, then you don't love the person you're wanting to marry.if you love them and sex is not what you hoped for, you can work on it together.
you are married to the one person you truly love and belong with you are going to feel like you've given something away that belongs to them. I know once I found my husband and got married I felt like a slut for having had sex with other boys in high school. I didn't even sleep around and wasnt by any means considered a slut compared to a lot of my other friends (I mean I had 4 boyfriends in high school and has slept with only those 4 before I found my husband when I was only 18). I'm glad to have found him that young bc who knows how many knotches I'd have on my bed post if I found him later what with starting college and everything. At the time you think it's the cool thing to do bc your friends are doing and sex is no big deal, but once you find your true love then you will really wish you'd only ever been with him.
August 23rd, 2008 at 6:35 pm
There are so many benefits to saving yourself for marriage.
people do not marry the person they lose their virginity to anyway.I'll be proud to let my husband know that I've been saving myself for him. Besides, there is a transferrence (besides just physical) that occurs with 2 people's bodies merge..it is a strong emotional and spiritual connection that can get dangerous if you are not doing it within the confines of a marriage which is a blessed union. If you think you have to test drive before commiting for marriage, then you don't love the person you're wanting to marry.if you love them and sex is not what you hoped for, you can work on it together.
August 23rd, 2008 at 6:54 pm
Yes, I believe it is.
you are married to the one person you truly love and belong with you are going to feel like you've given something away that belongs to them. I know once I found my husband and got married I felt like a slut for having had sex with other boys in high school. I didn't even sleep around and wasnt by any means considered a slut compared to a lot of my other friends (I mean I had 4 boyfriends in high school and has slept with only those 4 before I found my husband when I was only 18). I'm glad to have found him that young bc who knows how many knotches I'd have on my bed post if I found him later what with starting college and everything. At the time you think it's the cool thing to do bc your friends are doing and sex is no big deal, but once you find your true love then you will really wish you'd only ever been with him.